Christian Teachings We Rarely Hear: Surrender, Romans 12:1-8, The Rev. Connie Frierson



Romans 12:1-8   The New Life in Christ
I appeal to you therefore, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God—what is good and acceptable and perfect.
 For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of yourself more highly than you ought to think, but to think with sober judgement, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and not all the members have the same function, so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually we are members one of another. We have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us: prophecy, in proportion to faith; ministry, in ministering; the teacher, in teaching; the exhorter, in exhortation; the giver, in generosity; the leader, in diligence; the compassionate, in cheerfulness.
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         Let’s start with our bible passage this morning. Our scripture talks about being a living sacrifice that true worship is to make yourself and myself into a living sacrifice.   Oh no, a living sacrifice didn’t have much to do with my plans this morning. As my eyes peeped open at the alarm clock, I did not bounce out of bed, yelling good, good time to sacrifice. That is not how I pictured worship this morning.  I was thinking along the lines of a cup of coffee, a nice breakfast, a few peaceful prayers, a little learning sermon, pleasant music and then lunch.  Sacrifice didn’t have much to do with my plans.  But this passage on sacrifice reflects our next rarely taught Christian lesson, surrender. This lesson goes by several names. Whether you call this lesson surrender or sacrifice or submission or abandonment of self, surrender is at the core of living a Christian life.
         Surrender of the self is what Jesus calls us to do.  There is this passage from Matthew 16:24-5 “Then Jesus told his disciples, ‘If any want to become my followers, let them deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For those who want to save their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.”  Jesus is describing a spiritual practice of surrender.  Jesus calls it denying oneself.  But in this surrender instead of losing your life you find it.  This is a paradox.  A paradox is two statements that seem to be contradictory or even impossible or mutually exclusive.  But in actuality is profound truth.  Here is the paradox.  You have to be a living sacrifice. According to our scripture if you can be a living sacrifice you can be not conformed to world but be transformed. According to Jesus, You have to lose your life to find it. This is surrender that lead to life.
         Surrender is just too hard a concept.  So I wonder if we can simplify. Is there one image that could help us this morning?  I am hoping this is it, A Snow Angel. If you have ever made a snow angel raise your hand.  If you are over 50 especially, raise your hand. It doesn’t matter if you have done this yesterday or 50 years ago, you know how it works.  The snow has been a little skimpy lately but if you get a good deep snow and you fall backwards and fan your arms and legs, there you have it ‘A Snow Angel.’ That instant when you tip over backwards that is surrender. This big hard concept is a simple as this.  
         But the problem is we make it hard. We don’t like surrender. Quite frankly surrender has never been much encouraged.  What do you think of when you think of surrender?  If you surrender, you are a loser. You have raised the white flag. You have given up. You are defeated.  We don’t value any of that.  We are a “never say die” culture.  Our hero’s don’t surrender. They go down fighting. How odd Jesus did exactly the opposite of our hero culture.  Jesus emptied himself of power and went to the cross.  Jesus practiced complete surrender to God so that through him God could overcome death. God wants the same for us.  God wants us to surrender to God so we can overcome, overcome our faults, our limitations and ourselves and even to overcome death.
         Perhaps if we just answer two questions we can get back to the simplicity of that snow angel. 1) Who we surrendering to and 2) what are we surrendering? First of all you need to think of whom we are surrendering to. Does God want us to give up and give in to an enemy? No. The surrender is not to a stranger or an enemy but to a father, a creator, a mother hen, and a sacrificing savior. Your surrender isn’t to a stranger but to someone who knows the hairs on your head, someone who knows you better than yourself.  This surrender is not to an enemy who will humiliate and ridicule and perhaps massacre you but to the God who made you, works to guide and teach you and ultimately whom you will return to.  So in this way surrender isn’t a crazy radical act.  It is the nature turning of a child to a parent. Or it is as easy as tipping back into deep soft snow.
         The next question is what are we surrendering?  We surrender our life, our control of our life to God.  Well let’s just turn that one over in thought.  What do we control in life?  Can anyone make you taller by sheer will?  Can you prevent cancer?  Can you prevent your loved ones from dying?  Can you control what people think of you?  Seems to me that there is a whole bushel worth of things I think I can control but that I really can’t.  Perhaps I could surrender this silly belief that I am in control. It seems the most important thing to surrender is the illusion that I am god, that I know what is best, that I am always right, that my wishes and dreams are reality. This process of surrender might free me of a lot of anxiety. 
         I will give you an example.   In NYC there was a mother named Becky.  Becky had a child with Downs’s syndrome.  When her little one was little she would work and help with care plans and it seemed to be working.  But in time her little boy got older. He needed to go to a new school with new schedules and new teachers and new faces. And Becky would be bolt awake at 4:00 am worrying about all this.
In her devotionals she wrote, “We feel tension because we care. So much. We carry tension because we fear we’re not enough.” The basic truth is that while she could do lots there would always be something that she could not do.   There are always things we cannot do.  When we face this we need to practice surrender. We do the things that we are called to work on and leave the results to God. Surrender leads to God dependence, which leads us to peace. This surrender is what Paul was getting at when he wrote, “Do not be anxious about anything, 
but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 
And the peace of God, 
which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts 
and your minds in Christ Jesus” 
Philippians 4: 6, 7
         We need to surrender not just the illusion of control but also our very selves.  We give God the big and the little things of our life.  As an example there was a Seinfeld episode that illustrates this.  George Costanzia is a rotten guy.  He is selfish and pretentious. His life is a mess.  So in this episode, George acknowledges that all his basic instincts are wrong. So he decides to live his life doing the compete opposite of what he would ordinarily do.
So instead of ordering a ham on rye sandwich, he orders a tuna fish on whole wheat. Instead of lying to a woman and telling her he is an architect, he admits he is unemployed and living with his parents. Instead of pocketing some money he found he returns it to the owner.  His life totally changes around.  We are like that too. Instead of asking what we want, we ask what God wants. We think we are doing this practice of surrender for God right.  Wrong.  We are actually doing the surrender for us.  Our passage from Romans 12 has been paraphrased in the message like this. “So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering.”
         We have an illustration of this ordinary walking around life right in this service.  The second hymn was “I Want Jesus to Walk with Me” I loved that Hymn. The hymn is a fantastic combination of ragtime, speak easy and gospel. That is about my favorite combination. But that hymn represents what is the basic orientation of our life.  Jesus, come follow me.  Do what I am doing. Follow me around my life and make it whole and safe and good.  Maybe this ordinary walking around life can be redirected in a foundational way. Before I start walking, I offer God the steps. Before I slip my feet in slippers, I offer God my feet. Before my mind makes elaborate plans for today, I let God renew my mind. All that has the simple abandon of an angel in deep snow. We will close with the hymn “I Surrender All.”
                 
Amen.