The Wisdom of,... Knowing There Is a Season

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Ecclesiastes 3:1-15
February 24, 2013

For everything there is a season, and a time for every matter under heaven: 

     a time to be born, and a time to die;

     a time to plant, and a time to pluck up what is planted;
     a time to kill, and a time to heal;
     a time to break down, and a time to build up; 

     a time to weep, and a time to laugh;

     a time to mourn, and a time to dance; 

     a time to throw away stones, and a time to gather stones together;

     a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; 

     a time to seek, and a time to lose;

     a time to keep, and a time to throw away;
     a time to tear, and a time to sew;

     a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; 

     a time to love, and a time to hate;

     a time for war, and a time for peace.
         What gain have the workers from their toil? I have seen the business that God has given to everyone to be busy with. He has made everything suitable for its time; moreover, he has put a sense of past and future into their minds, yet they cannot find out what God has done from the beginning to the end. I know that there is nothing better for them than to be happy and enjoy themselves as long as they live; moreover, it is God’s gift that all should eat and drink and take pleasure in all their toil. I know that whatever God does endures for ever; nothing can be added to it, nor anything taken from it; God has done this, so that all should stand in awe before him. That which is, already has been; that which is to be, already is; and God seeks out what has gone by.

            Back in 1273, the great Thomas Aquinas, the theologian most responsible for wrestling Christianity out of the Dark Ages and into the Renaissance, had a vision. It changed everything for him.

            Aquinas had already written one of the greatest Christian books ever, his Summa Theologiae, and he was in the process of working on his opus, his greatest work. But then he got deathly ill. Something happened to him in that illness. He saw God, or heaven, or the future, or something. Whatever it was, it overwhelmed him. He said little to anyone about it, other than to comment that it was beautiful.

            As he got healthier, everyone expected him to continue his writings. They wanted to read what came next out of his great mind. But he wouldn’t write. People begged him, but he just never got back to work. His assistant, Reginald, kept bugging him about it. Finally, Aquinas said to him, “Reginald, I cannot, because all that I have written seems like straw to me.” All that I have written seems like straw… Here’s perhaps the greatest Christian writer of all time, and his words seem like straw, like the stuff you place on the floor of a stall for cows and sheep to poop on.

            To understand how monumental this statement was, consider what Aquinas did. Prior to him, Christianity had been trapped in hundreds of years of stale, inward-looking, insular theology. It had ceased to speak to the realities of life, and instead had devolved into platitudes. Then Aquinas began reading Aristotle, whose works had come again to Christianity through the Muslims. Christians had ignored the writings of Aristotle for 700 years. When Aquinas read Aristotle, he realized that he was being given a whole new way of considering Christianity. So he wrote. His writings revitalized Christianity, and spun movements that would eventually become the Protestant Reformation and so much more.

            How could Aquinas consider his works to be like straw? All we know is that whatever Aquinas saw, it put everything into perspective for him, including the value of his own writings. In that moment Aquinas understood the deep messages of Ecclesiastes.

            Our associate pastor, Connie Frierson did a great introduction to Ecclesiastes last week, and this week we continue the journey into wisdom. As Connie mentioned, this book is wisdom from someone who has lived long and tried everything. In sports terms, he was a grizzled vet, the kind of person who deeply understood the game, even if he’d lost a step. He was like Gary Roberts or Bill Guerin for the Penguins, Jerome Bettis or Hines Ward for the Steelers. They taught wisdom to younger players, whether or not they listened.

            The writer of Ecclesiastes had lived so much of life thinking that this or that mattered. He had pursued the ways of wealth, promiscuity, self-indulgence, power, influence, and so much more, yet toward the end of life he realized that life wasn’t about the things he thought it was. This writer reminded me of an old pastor I had lunch with six or seven years ago. I had asked him, looking back, if there was anything he regretted in his ministry. Without hesitation he said, “I wish I had spent more time with my family. My wife made it so easy for me to focus on the church and spend all of my time there that I just wasn’t at home much. I look at my kids now, who are adults, and I realize that they needed me more than the church did. I wish I had spent more time them.” This is an Ecclesiastes wisdom statement.

            The grizzled vet who wrote Ecclesiastes understood, late in life, what really mattered.

            There are two really great insights Ecclesiastes has, one of which Connie talked about last week. She talked about the idea of hebed, which is the Hebrew word translated as “vanity.” Vanity is not a good translation. The best word is something like “vapor.” Personally, I like the term “mist,” which is similar. It basically means that life is like a mist that cannot be clearly understood or seen, and that is temporary like mist. It is sort of similar to the Buddhist idea that life is illusion, although it’s not quite the same. Basically the writer of Ecclesiastes is saying that you can never fully understand life, capture life, or live it perfectly. Whatever you think is the essence of life, or the meaning of life, is fleeting.

            This idea leads to the other great insight, which is from our passage: Life has a rhythm that we can either live into and find meaning in it, or struggle against and lose meaning

            There’s a reason our passage is read so much at funerals. Funerals are a time when people are confronted with the way life really is, and it can be a time when people are most open to the deep wisdom of Ecclesiastes. Of course, that’s sometimes, but not always. There are a lot of people who hate funerals and avoid them like the plague. And even among those who do go, often they tune out the service as they sit there, treating the service like it’s the equivalent of taking a spoonful of cod liver oil. That’s truer of those who are younger. As you age, you tend to gain a greater appreciation for the importance of funerals. They help us deal with life as it really is.

            We read Ecclesiastes at funerals because this passage has some really important messages to tell us about life,… and death. First, it reminds us that there is a Divine Purpose to everything. It’s just that God doesn’t really tell us what that purpose is. We are invited to live according to God’s purpose, and to find a way to fit into God’s purpose, but what that grand purpose is God keeps to God’s self. God doesn’t consult with us. I don’t think it’s because God doesn’t want to tell us. I suspect it’s that as hard as we might try, there’s no way we could begin to even partially understand it. It would be much like trying to explain to a fish how life is lived on land. The fish can’t conceive of things like cities, farms, roads, and factories, and the fish can’t even speak or think like we do. Maybe we could talk to a porpoise, which isn’t a fish, but we’d have to find a common language first.

            At times we all struggle against the way the world is—against God’s purpose—especially when people close to us die, or events happen that have no explanation: a child, a parent, a husband, a wife, a friend, a mentor dies unexpectedly, and we ask “why?” God doesn’t really answer why, even if we ask it a million times. Or at best God gives us glimpses of why. And what makes it even harder to ascertain why is that the times we are most likely to ask “why” are the times we are least able to hear God’s answer. We put constraints on the answers, demanding that God answer the way we want, that God fit the explanation into our view of life.

            Back in 1991, when I was an associate pastor, I received a visit one day from a troubled young man who wanted to know “why.” I had been working in my office, and the secretary stepped in and said, “There’s a young man here who wants to see you. He looks really troubled and upset.” I told her to send him in. Before I could even introduce myself he said, “Why does God let good people suffer and die?” That’s not an easy question to answer even with a lot of thought, but it’s especially difficult to answer right out of the blue. I took a step back with him, asked him his name, told him mine, and then I asked, “What’s happened to you that’s causing you to wonder?  It’s obvious that something bad has happened.” He said, “I don’t understand why Senator John Heinz died yesterday in a helicopter accident. He was a really good man. Why did he have to die?” 

            He told me that he had been a college intern in Heinz’s senate office, and that Heinz was one of his heroes. We talked for about an hour, and then he left. I don’t think that anything I said helped. I’m not sure that there was anything that I could have said that would have helped. The problem was that he really didn’t want “God” answers. He didn’t want to hear anything about the promise of Heaven, he didn’t want to hear anything about how God created the universe, and he didn’t want to hear about trusting in God.

            He didn’t want to hear the kind of answer that Ecclesiastes gives, the one that talks about how there is a time for everything under heaven. He didn’t want to hear that people die in helicopter accidents, just as people die of cancer, heart attacks, pneumonia, violence, and suicides. The fact is that people die, and that’s what Ecclesiastes reminds us of. In fact, that makes it harder for us in our age is that people tend to be really healthy and live long lives in comparison to people just 100 years ago.

            100 years ago people died from things that have been mostly wiped out, such as whooping cough, tuberculosis, polio, and yellow fever. People died from scratches and injuries that today are minor. In the days of Ecclesiastes, people were lucky if out of six children, two made it to adulthood, and one made it to the ripe old age of 50. People died from injuries from everyday tasks. For example, think about the process of stretching wool so that it can be spun into yarn. A woman would take a ball of sheep’s wool and pull it apart, while thrusting it up and down on a cluster of sharp nails gathered together on a block of wood and pointed upward. If a nail got rusty, and the woman punctured her finger on it, she could easily die of tetanus. No one would even know where the disease came from. Death is hard for us today, and we’re relatively well protected from early deaths. Ecclesiastes reminds us that death happens, as do wars, mourning, tearing, and weeping, as well as peace, laughing, dancing, harvest, and life.

            Going back to Heinz’s intern, I’m not sure what kind of answer he wanted, but it was clear that nothing I could say was going to make a difference. He had questions, but he also placed restrictions on the kinds of answers I could give. He wasn’t ready to delve into God’s purposes. He didn’t understand the wisdom of Ecclesiastes before Heinz died, so how could he understand it afterwards?

            The truth is that Ecclesiastes exposes us to a truth, which is that this is just the way life is, the way it’s been since the beginnig, and the way it will be for centuries. Still, the message of Ecclesiastes isn’t just about the hopelessness of the way life is—that life is nasty, brutish, and short (in the Enlightenment philosopher’s, Thomas Hobbes, words). The deeper message of Ecclesiastes is that if you find a way to live within the realities of life, it can be beautiful, pleasant, and long. But this requires finding a way to fit into how life is, rather than beating your head against life, wondering why it isn’t the way you want it to be.

            True wisdom means learning how to fit into life and all its wonders. This fitting in ultimately means finding balance in life, and that’s the great message of this passage: that life is a balance

            The human tendency is always to the extremes—“more is better,” “extreme is supreme.” The fact is that humans have always tended toward excess, and excess always leads away from wisdom. That’s the problem of addictions. They lead us away from wisdom by making us slaves to an ever-increasing need for more:  more booze, more drugs, more sex, more gambling, more work, more… whatever it is that we seek more of. There’s a reason, too, why Jesus says that it is easier for a camel to walk through the eye of a needle than it is for a rich man to get into heaven. Wealth is more, and increased wealth is increased “more,” leading us to lose our sense of compassion for others as it propels us to seek more and more security. Ecclesiastes teaches us that the pursuit of more leads us away from the deep, rich life God wants for us, but keeping everything in balance leads to God’s joy.

            I love Ecclesiastes because it gets right to the heart of how to live a really good life, even if it doesn’t necessarily fit with the world’s wisdom. It recognizes that storms, winter, conflict, weeping, and even death are all part of life, but so are sunshine, summer, peace, laughing, and life. It recognizes that eating, drinking, and pleasure are gifts from God, as is our work. Finally, it recognizes that there is a purpose to everything, even if you can’t figure it out. Our task isn’t to figure it out,… it’s to just live it out.

            Amen.